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A wedding recap, a deep-dive into the music of 1984 and why it matters

A recording from Lawrence Winnerman and Dana DuBois's live video

My babies and their first mosh pit adventures at Girl in Red.

My top 10 favorite songs for this not-favorite holiday

Let's go crazy—three great subscriptions, one low price.

Reconnecting with old friends is the best; even when they know your secrets!

Plus more hot takes in the news, like Alligator Alcatraz, the Big not-so-beautiful Bill, and how the Overton Window has move catastrophically toward fascism

We're writing to say a proper hello and thank you. And with one request...

From disrespectful tenants, to janky internet connections, to Pride, what a mess!

Lawrence and I are together in Seattle--and we're hatching up exciting plans and schemes.

A song that followed me from childhood into adulthood

Wine, sunshine, friendship, and OLIVES!

Local action, Trump is literally the Devil, and Primaries!

This was a remarkable chat. Please watch it.

Make new friends, but keep the old. One is silver, the other is gold.

It may apply to you, even if you aren't perfect--I mean, gay

Baby steps to living in France, and the long arm of American politics

From Iran and Israel and What's-His-Name, to diabetes, fuck everything

Bet your bottom dollar that I'm using my new diagnosis to get a GLP-1

With special guest The Momster (and her baby, Grace)

A quick roadtrip Live, recorded at a Florida rest area and posted from a McDonalds near St Augustine

Turns out, there is a lot of good news out there in the world!

The episode I nearly slept through (but was so glad I didn't!)

What's it like to dump your American life and live in France? Amazing.