Falling in Love Through My Thumbs, Pt 1
Romantic synesthesia with a man as delightful as he is distant.

Dana DuBois is a memoirist and Gen X word nerd based in the Pacific Northwest. She founded I Write Out Loud, her Substack publication, where she writes across a range of subjects; parenting, music and pop culture, relationships, and feminism are her favorites. She co-hosts The Daily Whatever Show. Em dashes, Oxford commas, and well-placed semicolons make her heart happy.
Romantic synesthesia with a man as delightful as he is distant.
Chat, it never fails....Frederic comes on and Dana's late, and then we GO DEEP
A Pink Hair & Pronouns reunion
What it's like to stick around with Mr. Not-Quite-Right
Celebrating milestones, and a reading from my latest chapter
A GenX romantic idealist reckons with finding — and then losing — Mr. Not-Quite-Right
Also my first-ever wet t-shirt contest, I guess?
Celebrating a milestone and our community with karaoke
Our weekly competition for the most fucked-up news story out there...
Celebrating 60 paid subscribers with two valued members of our Whatever community!
In our queer-friendly neighborhood, I thought they were safe. I was wrong.
From butt stuff to women's health to expatriating to Canada, Dr. Hull wowed us all
An introduction to Jackie from Light Shines Through
A recording from Lawrence Winnerman's live video
A GenX woman on what her family taught her about food-and what semaglutide helped her unlearn.
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A birthday report from Dana, and Brandon jumps in!
May she sleep with a clear conscience, may she sleep in peace.
In a week full of weird & sucky news, we had a plethora of choices for most fucked-up
A conversation about the male gaze and objectification which included a pop-up creep
Lawrence reads us the latest chapter from his novel, and we're all transfixed by his voice.
A Gen X mom explores sexuality, beauty, aging, and modern-day feminism in an era of “your body, my choice”
With our 40th subscriber--and dear friend--Sunny Hong!